How Does Shisha Change Your Mood

Shisha is often described as relaxing. People sit together, talk, and share a pipe, and the slow pace of a session can feel like a break from a busy day. That feeling is real, and it is one of the main reasons people return to shisha again and again. But the calm that shisha gives is short-lived, and it comes with a cost that is easy to miss. Underneath that relaxed feeling, nicotine and smoke are changing how the brain handles mood, stress, sleep and patience, and those changes do not stop when the session ends.

This article looks at how shisha changes mood over hours, weeks and months. It explains why a session can feel calming at first and leave a person feeling flat or irritable later, why cravings make mood swing up and down, and why regular use is linked with low mood, anxiety and poor sleep. It is general information only, not individual medical advice. If low mood, anxiety or the habit itself is worrying you, a qualified health professional is the right person to talk to.

What Shisha Actually Is and What Reaches Your Body

Shisha, also called hookah or waterpipe, is tobacco that is heated with charcoal and smoked through water. The smoke is often flavoured, which makes it smell sweet and taste mild, but the sweetness is misleading. A shisha session usually lasts far longer than a single cigarette, often forty minutes to an hour, and during that time a person takes in a large amount of smoke. Health authorities have pointed out that the water in the pipe does not filter out the harmful chemicals in tobacco smoke. It cools the smoke and makes it easier to inhale deeply, which can mean more smoke reaches the lungs, not less.

That smoke contains nicotine, the same addictive substance found in cigarettes, along with carbon monoxide and many other chemicals produced when tobacco and charcoal burn. Nicotine reaches the brain quickly, within seconds of inhaling, and that speed matters. The brain learns fast: a substance that brings a quick change in feeling becomes something the brain wants to repeat. Carbon monoxide, meanwhile, binds to the red blood cells that carry oxygen around the body, so less oxygen reaches the brain and other organs during and after a session. Even a single long session can leave a person feeling light-headed, tired or headachy, and those physical effects feed directly into mood.

It helps to be clear about one common misunderstanding. Shisha is not a harmless herbal alternative to cigarettes. Most shisha tobacco contains nicotine, and even tobacco-free mixtures still produce smoke from burning charcoal, which carries its own harmful chemicals. The social setting also changes how much a person smokes. At home alone, a person might smoke for a few minutes. In a café with friends, the pipe stays lit, the conversation keeps going, and the session stretches on. The longer the session, the more nicotine and smoke the body takes in, and the stronger the effect on mood in the hours that follow.

The First Calm Feeling and Why It Fades So Fast

Many people say shisha helps them relax, and there is a simple reason for that feeling. When nicotine reaches the brain, it triggers the release of dopamine, a chemical involved in pleasure and reward. For a short time, that extra dopamine can make a person feel calmer, more at ease and more sociable. The slow breathing, the quiet setting and the company of friends add to that feeling. A person who has had a stressful day can sit down, take a few slow draws, and feel the tension ease. It is not hard to see why that experience feels helpful.

The problem is that the calm does not last, and it is not the same as real relaxation. As the nicotine wears off, dopamine levels fall back, often dropping below where they were before the session. That drop can bring restlessness, a low feeling and a nagging urge for more nicotine. So the very thing that felt calming an hour ago can leave a person feeling worse than before, and the only quick way to feel better again is another session. This is the cycle that nicotine creates: a brief lift, a dip below normal, and a craving to repeat the lift. Over time, the brain starts to expect that extra dopamine, and ordinary pleasures, such as a meal, a walk or a conversation, can feel less satisfying without it.

It is worth comparing this with the calm that comes from rest itself. A walk, a quiet evening or a good night’s sleep leaves a person genuinely rested, and the benefit lasts into the next day. The calm from shisha is borrowed. It is relief from the discomfort of nicotine wearing off, dressed up as relaxation. A person who has never smoked does not need shisha to feel calm in the evening, because their brain is not waiting for a nicotine hit. A regular shisha user, by contrast, may find it hard to feel at ease without one, not because their life is more stressful, but because their brain has learned to link calm with the pipe.

Nicotine, Cravings and the Ups and Downs Between Sessions

Once shisha becomes a regular habit, mood starts to follow the nicotine cycle rather than the day itself. After a session, nicotine levels in the blood fall steadily over a few hours. As they fall, many people begin to feel restless, distracted or low, even if they do not connect the feeling with shisha. They may blame work, the weather or a bad night’s sleep, when part of the cause is the brain asking for more nicotine. The next session then brings relief, and the relief feels like proof that shisha helps mood, when in fact it is only fixing a problem that shisha itself created.

Cravings add another layer to this pattern. A craving is not a gentle wish. It can arrive suddenly, often triggered by a familiar place, a time of day or the sight of friends smoking, and it can feel urgent and hard to ignore. When a craving hits, attention narrows to one thing, and everything else feels less interesting. That is why a person waiting for the evening session can seem distant or impatient during the day, and why a missed session can make them feel genuinely unhappy. The craving is the brain’s reward system demanding what it has learned to expect, and until it is satisfied, mood stays low.

Over weeks and months, this up-and-down pattern becomes the normal rhythm of the day. Mornings may feel flat until the first session, evenings may feel brighter for a short time, and then the flat feeling returns. People around the user often notice the pattern before the user does: the same person seems cheerful after a session and snappy or quiet a few hours later. That is not a personality change. It is the nicotine cycle showing up as mood, and it is one of the most consistent effects of regular tobacco use, whether the tobacco comes from a cigarette or a waterpipe.

Irritability, Short Temper and Small Things Feeling Bigger

One of the earliest mood changes linked with regular shisha use is irritability. Small things start to feel bigger than they should: a delay, a noise, a question asked twice, a child being noisy. A person who used to let these things pass may find themselves snapping, raising their voice or withdrawing into silence. The change is usually gradual, so it is easy to blame it on stress or tiredness, but health guidance and the experience of many former users point to the same pattern. When nicotine levels drop between sessions, patience drops with them.

There is a physical reason for this. Nicotine affects the parts of the brain that help with self-control and handling frustration. When the brain is waiting for nicotine, it has less patience for waiting in general. Sleep also plays a part, because shisha smoke and late sessions can disturb sleep, and a tired person is more easily irritated the next day. Put together, a regular user can end up in a loop: poor sleep makes them irritable, irritability makes the day harder, and the hard day makes the evening session feel even more necessary.

This matters most at home, where the people who feel the irritability are often family. A partner, a parent or a child does not see a nicotine cycle. They see a person who is harder to be around than they used to be, and they may not understand why. Over time, that strain can damage relationships, which then adds real stress to the person’s life, and the stress becomes another reason to reach for shisha. Breaking that loop usually means recognising that the short temper is not simply a bad character trait. It is a sign that the habit is affecting mood, and it is a sign worth taking seriously.

Low Mood, Flat Feelings and Losing Interest in Ordinary Pleasures

With regular use over months, some people notice a quieter change: ordinary things stop feeling as enjoyable as they once did. Food tastes less interesting, music feels flat, a family gathering feels like an effort, and a hobby that used to bring pleasure now feels like a chore. This is sometimes called flatness, and it is one of the ways nicotine changes the brain’s reward system. When the brain is used to the strong dopamine push from tobacco, everyday pleasures, which give a much smaller push, can feel dull by comparison.

Low mood is not the same as ordinary sadness. Sadness usually has a clear cause and lifts after a while. The low mood linked with regular shisha use is often a steady, heavy feeling that sits in the background for weeks, without one obvious reason. A person may still laugh with friends and get through the day, but underneath, they feel less bright, less motivated and less hopeful than before. They may sleep more or less than usual, eat differently, or find it hard to concentrate on work. These changes are easy to dismiss one by one, but together they form a pattern that deserves attention.

It is important to say this carefully. Shisha does not cause low mood in every person who uses it, and low mood has many possible causes, from life stress to other health problems. But the link between regular tobacco use and low mood is well recognised, and the two can feed each other. A person who feels low may use shisha to feel better for an hour, and the shisha then makes the low mood worse over the following days. That is why health professionals advise people who notice a lasting low mood to talk about it, and to mention their tobacco use honestly, so that both parts of the problem can be looked at together.

Anxiety, Worry and Feeling Uneasy Around Other People

Anxiety is another mood change that many regular shisha users report, and it can seem puzzling at first, because shisha is supposed to be relaxing. The explanation is similar to the one for low mood. Nicotine gives a short feeling of calm, but as it wears off, the body can feel on edge: heart beating faster, hands restless, mind racing, a sense of unease without a clear cause. For some people, that unease shows up as worry about ordinary things, such as work, money or health. For others, it shows up as nervousness around people, a feeling of being watched or judged, or a wish to avoid social situations that used to feel easy.

The social side of shisha makes this harder to see. Shisha is usually smoked with other people, in a café or at home with friends, and in that setting a person can feel relaxed and confident. But the confidence may be coming from the nicotine and the familiar group, not from feeling genuinely at ease. Away from the group, in a different setting, the same person can feel more nervous than before they started smoking. Over time, some people begin to rely on shisha to feel comfortable socially, which narrows their life: they feel fine at the shisha table and uneasy everywhere else.

Carbon monoxide and poor sleep add to the problem. When the brain gets less oxygen and the body gets less rest, the stress system stays switched on for longer, and the body reacts more strongly to small worries. A person who is already anxious can find that shisha makes the anxiety worse overall, even though each session feels like a break from it. That is a difficult pattern to spot from the inside, because the short-term relief feels so real. It usually becomes clear only when a person stops for a while and notices that their general level of worry has fallen, even if the first days without shisha feel unsettled.

Sleep, Tiredness and How a Bad Night Changes the Next Day’s Mood

Shisha sessions often happen late in the evening, and that timing affects sleep in two ways. First, nicotine is a stimulant, which means it can make it harder to fall asleep and can make sleep lighter and more broken. Second, the smoke itself can irritate the airways, leading to coughing, snoring or waking during the night. A person may sleep for a normal number of hours and still wake up feeling unrefreshed, because the quality of the sleep was poor. Over weeks, that sleep debt builds up, and it shows up as tiredness, poor concentration and a low, irritable mood during the day.

Tiredness and mood are closely linked. A tired person finds it harder to handle stress, harder to be patient, and harder to enjoy things. Small problems feel larger, and the day feels longer. For a regular shisha user, the cycle can look like this: a late session disturbs sleep, poor sleep makes the next day feel hard, the hard day makes the evening session feel necessary, and the session disturbs sleep again. Each part of the cycle makes the next part worse, and after a while it is hard to tell where the cycle began.

There is also the effect of carbon monoxide on the body overnight. During a long session, carbon monoxide reduces the oxygen in the blood, and the body needs time to clear it. That can leave a person feeling groggy, headachy or out of breath the next morning, which is not a good start to the day. People often blame the morning feeling on a late night or a heavy meal, and those things can contribute, but the smoke itself is part of the picture. Better sleep is one of the first improvements many people notice after they stop using shisha, and the improvement in mood that follows is often the reason they decide to stay stopped.

Shisha is rarely a solitary habit. It is tied to friendship, family gatherings, cafés and celebrations, and that social warmth makes it hard to see the mood effects clearly. When a person feels happy at a shisha café, they may credit the shisha, when much of the happiness comes from being with friends, talking and relaxing together. The same evening with friends, without the pipe, might feel just as good, but the person never gets to find out, because the pipe is always there. Over time, the habit and the social life become tangled together, and the idea of giving up shisha can feel like giving up friends.

That tangle also makes it harder for friends and family to raise the subject. Nobody wants to spoil a pleasant evening by talking about health risks, and a person who enjoys shisha may feel defensive if someone suggests it is affecting their mood. It is easier to say nothing, and the habit continues. Meanwhile, the mood changes build up quietly in the background: the irritability at home, the flatness during the day, the worry that does not quite go away. Because the changes are slow, everyone adjusts to them, and the new normal feels like the person themselves, rather than the effect of a habit.

Seeing this clearly does not mean giving up friendship or social life. It means separating the two things: the pleasure of spending time with people, and the smoke that comes with it. A person can keep the friends, the conversation and the café, and still choose to step away from the pipe. Many former users say that this was the most useful realisation they had: the evenings did not become empty without shisha, they simply became clearer, and their mood during the rest of the week improved at the same time. The social setting is part of what makes shisha attractive, and it is also part of what hides its cost.

What to Watch For in Your Own Mood

If you use shisha regularly, it helps to know what changes are worth watching for, because the changes are gradual and easy to explain away. The first sign is often irritability in the hours when you have not smoked. You may find that you are short with people in the morning, or impatient in the afternoon, and that the feeling lifts after a session. That pattern, feeling worse before a session and better after it, is a strong clue that nicotine is driving the mood, not the events of the day. A second sign is flatness: the things that used to lift your mood, a good meal, a walk, a conversation with a friend, start to feel less satisfying, while the session itself still feels rewarding. When ordinary pleasures fade and only the pipe still feels bright, the brain’s reward system has shifted, and that shift deserves attention.

A third sign is worry that does not have a clear cause. You may find yourself thinking about small problems for longer than you used to, or feeling uneasy in situations that once felt easy, such as meeting new people or speaking in a group. The worry may come and go, and it may feel worse on days when you have not smoked, which can make it look as if shisha is the cure, when in fact the worry is part of the cycle. A fourth sign is poor sleep that leaves you tired and low the next day, even when you have spent enough hours in bed. If you wake up groggy most mornings, and the grogginess lifts only after the day has begun, the previous evening’s session is a likely contributor, and it is worth testing that link by taking a break and seeing whether sleep improves.

The most useful way to check is to keep a short, honest record for two weeks. Each evening, write down in a few words when you used shisha, how you slept, and how your mood felt the next morning and afternoon. Do not try to prove a point. Just write what happened. At the end of two weeks, read the notes together and look for a pattern. If your worst moods and worst nights follow your heaviest sessions, you have learned something important about your own body, and that information is far more useful than any general warning. If there is no pattern, you will know that too, and you can look elsewhere for the cause of a low mood. Either way, you will be making a decision based on your own experience, not on a guess.

It is also worth asking the people close to you what they have noticed, because they often see the pattern before you do. A partner may have noticed that you are more patient on some days than others, or a family member may have noticed that you seem quieter than you used to be. Those observations are not accusations. They are information from people who see you every day, and they can help you see what is hard to see from inside a habit. If you ask, listen to the answer without defending yourself, and thank the person for their honesty, you may learn something that changes how you think about the habit. And if you notice several of these signs together, irritability, flatness, worry and poor sleep, that is a good moment to talk to a health professional, who can help you look at the whole picture and plan what to do next.

My Take:

I want to be honest about shisha, because the honest picture is more complicated than either side of the argument usually admits. Shisha is not the worst thing a person can do, and the people who use it are not foolish. They are usually people who enjoy company, who like a slow evening, and who have found something that feels relaxing after a long day. I understand that, and I do not think lecturing those people helps anyone. But I also think the relaxing feeling is not the whole story, and the part that gets left out is the part that matters most: the mood you have the next morning, and the morning after that, and the month after that.

The thing that stays with me is the gap between the feeling during a session and the feeling between sessions. During the session, everything feels calm and easy. Between sessions, the same person can feel flat, snappy and tired, and they often do not connect the two. I think that is the real trap of shisha. It does not announce itself as a mood problem. It presents itself as a solution to a bad mood, and it is only when you step back and look at a whole week that you see the pattern: the good feeling is short, the flat feeling is long, and the pipe is what links them. If more people saw that pattern clearly, I think more of them would at least think twice before making shisha a daily habit.

I am particularly struck by how shisha affects patience at home, because home is where mood matters most and where it is noticed least kindly. At a café, everyone is relaxed and polite. At home, a person who is waiting for their next session can be short with their partner, impatient with their children, and distant when they are asked a simple question. The family does not see a nicotine cycle. They see a person who has become harder to live with, and over time that can do real damage to relationships that matter far more than any evening out. I think anyone who uses shisha regularly should ask the people closest to them, honestly, whether they have noticed a change in temper or patience. The answer might be uncomfortable, but it is worth hearing.

The flatness worries me more than the irritability, in some ways, because it is quieter and easier to miss. A person who snaps at someone notices it, and the other person notices it too. A person who slowly stops enjoying things may not notice at all. They just feel less bright, less interested, less motivated, and they put it down to age, or work, or the weather. But if the things that used to bring pleasure have all faded at the same time, and shisha has become a daily habit in the same period, then the habit deserves a serious look. I do not think a person should accept a duller life as normal when there is a clear, changeable cause sitting in the middle of it.

Anxiety is the part I think is most misunderstood. People use shisha to calm their nerves, and for an hour it works, so they conclude that shisha helps anxiety. But the evidence and the experience of former users point the other way: regular nicotine use tends to raise the general level of anxiety over time, even while each session gives short relief. It is like borrowing money to pay a debt: the payment feels good, but the debt grows. I think this is a hard truth to accept, because it goes against what the body feels in the moment, but it is a truth worth sitting with. If your general level of worry has risen since you started using shisha regularly, that is not a coincidence to ignore.

Sleep is where I would start if I were talking to someone who uses shisha every evening. It is the most practical place to look, because the link is easy to test. A late session, broken sleep, a groggy morning, a hard day, another late session: that loop is visible once you look for it, and breaking it for even a week can show a person what their mood looks like without the smoke. I am not saying a week without shisha will fix everything. The first few days can feel worse, because cravings and restlessness are real. But after that, many people find that they sleep more deeply, wake up clearer, and feel less on edge during the day. That change is worth experiencing before deciding what to do next.

I also think the social side deserves an honest word, because it is the reason most people give for not stopping. Shisha is tied to friendship, and nobody wants to lose their friends. But friendship does not live in a pipe. It lives in the conversation, the laughter and the time spent together, and all of those things survive without smoke. I think a person who wants to cut down should try something simple first: go to the same café, sit with the same friends, order the same tea, and simply not smoke. If the evening still feels good, then the friendship was never about the shisha. If the evening feels empty without it, then the habit has a stronger hold than the person realised, and that is useful information too.

I want to say something about the idea that shisha is harmless because the smoke passes through water. That idea is widespread, and it is wrong, and I think it has done a lot of damage, because it gives people a false sense of safety. Water cools smoke. It does not remove nicotine, it does not remove carbon monoxide, and it does not remove the many chemicals produced by burning tobacco and charcoal. A long session can expose a person to more smoke than a whole pack of cigarettes, and the fact that the smoke tastes sweet does not change what is in it. I do not say this to frighten anyone. I say it because a decision based on a false belief is not a free decision, and people deserve the true picture before they choose.

What gives me hope is that mood recovers. The brain is not fixed in the state that nicotine leaves it in. When a person stops using shisha, the reward system slowly readjusts, ordinary pleasures start to feel satisfying again, sleep improves, and the general level of irritability and worry tends to fall. That recovery is not instant, and it is not the same for everyone, but it is real, and it is one of the reasons former users often say they wish they had stopped sooner. I think that is worth remembering on the hard days, when cravings make stopping feel pointless. The hard days pass, and the clearer days that follow are the reward for getting through them.

If you use shisha and your mood feels lower, flatter or more anxious than it used to, I would ask you to do one simple thing: keep a short note for two weeks. Write down when you use shisha, how you sleep, and how your mood feels the next day, in a few plain words. Do not try to prove anything. Just look at the pattern at the end of the two weeks. If there is no pattern, you will know that, and you can stop worrying about it. If there is a pattern, and I think many people will find one, then you have something solid to work with, and you can talk to a health professional about it with real information instead of a vague feeling.

Finally, I would say this to anyone who has never used shisha: do not start because it looks relaxing. The relaxation is real, but it is borrowed, and the price is paid in the hours and days after the session, in mood, sleep and patience. There are many ways to relax with friends that do not involve smoke, and they leave you feeling genuinely rested the next day. And to anyone who does use shisha, I would say this: you do not need to decide today whether to stop forever. Just look honestly at how you feel between sessions, talk to the people close to you, and consider a break long enough to see what your mood looks like without it. That honest look is the most useful thing you can do, and it costs nothing but a little courage.

I think it is also worth saying something about the people who say shisha is part of their culture, because that argument is real and it deserves respect. Shisha has a long history in many parts of the world, and for many families it is tied to hospitality, to evenings together, and to a way of welcoming guests. I do not think that history should be dismissed, and I do not think a person should feel ashamed of a tradition they grew up with. But a tradition can still carry a health cost, and knowing the cost does not mean rejecting the tradition. It means making an honest choice about it, and perhaps finding a way to keep the gathering and the welcome while leaving the smoke aside. The company, the tea, the conversation and the warmth can all stay. Only the pipe needs to go, and that is a smaller change than it first appears.

Another thought that stays with me is how much of the mood effect comes from the belief that shisha helps, rather than from the nicotine alone. When a person believes that a session will calm them, they sit down expecting to feel better, and that expectation itself is calming. The setting helps too: the slow pace, the low light, the friends, the break from work. All of those things are genuinely relaxing, and they would be relaxing without the pipe as well. I think many people could get most of the benefit they seek from shisha simply by keeping the evening, the friends and the slow pace, and leaving out the smoke. That is not a trick. It is a way of separating what actually helps, the rest and the company, from what harms, the nicotine and the smoke, and keeping only the good part.

I also want to be fair about the limits of what I know. Mood is complicated, and shisha is not the only thing that affects it. Work stress, money worries, family problems, poor sleep for other reasons, and other health conditions can all lower mood, and it would be wrong to blame everything on shisha. But that does not mean shisha is irrelevant. It means that mood should be looked at as a whole, and that shisha should be one of the things considered, honestly, alongside everything else. A health professional can help with that wider look, and I think that is the right next step for anyone whose mood has been low for weeks, whatever the cause turns out to be.

The last thing I want to say is about kindness, because this subject can easily become a lecture, and lectures rarely change anyone’s mind. A person who uses shisha is not a bad person, and a person who finds it hard to stop is not weak. Nicotine is addictive, the social setting is powerful, and the habit is woven into daily life in ways that are hard to undo. What helps, in my experience, is honesty without judgement: looking clearly at how you feel, talking openly with the people close to you, and making a small, practical change to see what happens. You do not need to decide everything today. You only need to start looking, and the looking itself is a step worth taking. A small, honest change, such as a week without shisha, a conversation with a health professional, or a simple note of how you feel each day, can tell you more than any article can. Your mood is yours, and it is worth protecting, not only for an hour in the evening, but for the whole of the next day, and the day after that.

Frequently Asked Questions

How does shisha affect anxiety?

Shisha can feel calming during a session because nicotine triggers a short release of dopamine, but as nicotine wears off, many people feel more on edge, restless or worried than before. Over weeks of regular use, that cycle can raise a person’s general level of anxiety, even though each session feels like relief in the moment. Poor sleep and less oxygen reaching the brain during long sessions can add to the feeling. If anxiety keeps returning or getting worse, it is worth talking to a health professional about both the anxiety and the shisha use.

Can shisha cause lingering low mood even in light users?

Yes, it can, although the risk is lower than for heavy daily users. Light use repeated over months still exposes the brain to nicotine again and again, and that repeated exposure can flatten mood and make ordinary pleasures feel less satisfying. A person who uses shisha only a few times a week can still notice low mood, tiredness or irritability on the days between sessions. Less use generally means less strain, while no use means the strain stops growing.

How long does it take for shisha to harm low mood?

There is no single timetable, because people differ in how often and how long they smoke, and in how their bodies respond. Some people notice flatness, irritability or low mood within a few weeks of regular use, while for others the change builds slowly over months. What matters more than the exact date is the direction: the more regular the use, the more likely mood is to show the strain. Early signs are worth noticing because they arrive before the harm becomes serious.

Does stopping shisha help mood recover?

In many cases, yes. The first change people notice is often that mood stops getting worse, followed by a slow improvement over weeks and months as the brain’s reward system readjusts and sleep improves. The first few days can feel harder, because cravings and restlessness are common, but most people find that irritability and low mood ease after the first week or two. Recovery is not instant and it is not the same for everyone, and some effects take longer to fade, but stopping removes the daily strain and gives mood its best chance to recover.

Why do people keep using shisha if it harms mood?

Habit, routine, social pressure and the quick calm feeling shisha gives all play a part, and the mood harm arrives too slowly to feel like an immediate warning. Many people also use shisha to cope with stress, tiredness or low mood, which makes the habit feel useful even while it makes mood worse over time. The relief in the moment is powerful, while the harm is quiet and gradual, so it is easy to miss the link. Understanding that loop is often the first step toward breaking it, with support from family, friends or a health professional.

When should someone seek advice about shisha and mood?

It is sensible to seek advice when low mood, anxiety or irritability keeps returning, when mood interferes with work, sleep or family life, or when stopping shisha feels very hard. A health professional can give general information, check for other causes, and explain the support options available. Seek help sooner if low mood feels severe, lasts for weeks without lifting, or comes with thoughts of harming yourself. This article is general information only and is not a substitute for personal medical advice.

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This article is general information only. It is not individual medical advice. If you are worried about your health, talk to a qualified health professional.