Why Do We Grind Our Teeth in Sleep
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Most people who grind their teeth in sleep never hear themselves do it. They find out from someone else, a partner who was kept awake by the sound, or a parent who heard it from the next room, or a dentist who notices the teeth are wearing flat. Others find out from their own mornings: a jaw that aches before the day has begun, a headache behind the eyes, teeth that feel tender when they bite into breakfast, or a neck that feels stiff for no clear reason. The sound itself is hard to describe, a low grinding, a sliding scrape, sometimes a rhythmic clench that repeats through the night. It is strange to think that your own body can do something so forceful while you are asleep and have no memory of it at all. Yet it is common, it has clear causes, and it can be understood in plain words once you know how sleep works and what stress does to the jaw. This article explains that picture: what grinding really is, how the stages of sleep open the door to it, why a worried mind follows you into the night, what happens inside the mouth while you sleep, and what the morning signs are trying to tell you.
The first thing to understand is that grinding in sleep is not a choice, and it is not a sign of bad character or poor sleep discipline. It is a movement the brain makes without asking permission. During sleep the brain is not switched off. It is busy sorting memory, clearing the day’s tension, moving the body between sleep stages, and sometimes it sends a signal to the jaw muscles that makes them tighten and slide. You do not decide to grind, and you cannot simply decide to stop in the middle of the night. That is why advice like just relax is unhelpful on its own. The answer lies in understanding what the brain is doing at night, and what the day before it has left behind.
What Teeth Grinding in Sleep Really Is
Grinding in sleep is called sleep bruxism, and it covers two related actions: clenching, where the upper and lower teeth are pressed together hard without moving, and grinding, where the jaw slides from side to side while the teeth are pressed together, which makes the scraping sound. Many people do both in the same night, clenching for a while, then grinding, then resting, then starting again. The force can be strong. The chewing muscles are powerful, and during sleep there is no conscious control to hold them back, so the pressure on the teeth can be much higher than the pressure of normal chewing during the day. That is why teeth can wear down, crack a filling, or become sensitive, even though the person never feels the force while it is happening.
Grinding is different from the chewing you do while awake. When you chew, you control the force, you stop when the food is soft, and you open your mouth between bites. In sleep there is no food, no pause, and no feedback to say enough. The jaw can stay clenched for minutes, or grind in short bursts again and again. Some nights are quiet, with only a few short episodes. Other nights are busy, with grinding through much of the night. The person wakes with no memory of any of it, which is one reason the problem can go on for years before it is noticed. A partner’s report, or a dentist’s observation, is often the first clue.
It is also different from grinding while awake. Daytime grinding is usually clenching: holding the teeth together while concentrating, driving, working at a screen, or feeling tense. You can notice it, and you can stop it, once you learn to watch for it. Sleep grinding you cannot watch, because you are asleep. That is what makes it harder to manage, and it is also why the solutions are different. Daytime grinding is helped by noticing and releasing the jaw. Sleep grinding is helped by changing what the brain and body carry into the night: the level of stress, the quality of sleep, and the habits of the evening before bed.
How Sleep Moves Through Stages
Sleep is not one flat state. It moves in cycles, about ninety minutes long, and each cycle passes through light sleep, deep sleep, and dream sleep. In light sleep the body is settling, the muscles are relaxing, and a small noise can wake you. In deep sleep the body is still, the breathing is slow, and the brain is doing its deepest repair work. In dream sleep, called REM sleep, the brain is active and dreaming, and most of the body’s muscles are switched off so you do not act out your dreams. You pass through these stages four or five times a night, and each time the brain shifts gear, there is a brief moment when the body is more likely to move, twitch, or, in some people, grind.
Grinding most often happens in light sleep, or in the brief shifts between stages, rather than in the deepest sleep. That is because the brain is more active at those points, and the jaw muscles are not fully switched off. A small disturbance, a change in breathing, a snore, a shift in position, or a surge of brain activity, can trigger a short burst of jaw movement. The brain may also be reacting to something it noticed, such as a blocked airway, a dry mouth, or a tooth that feels uncomfortable. The grinding is not the brain’s main job at that moment. It is a side effect of the brain waking slightly and the jaw muscles switching on before the rest of the body is ready.
This pattern explains why grinding comes and goes through the night and why some nights are worse than others. A night with broken sleep, with many small wake-ups, gives the brain more chances to trigger the jaw. A night of smooth, steady sleep gives it fewer chances. It also explains why grinding can appear after a change in sleep: a new bed, a late night, travel, a cold, or a period of short sleep. The sleep itself is less stable, the shifts between stages are more frequent, and the jaw gets more opportunities to clench. It is not that the person is sleeping badly because they grind. It is often the other way round: the sleep is unsettled, and the grinding follows.
Why Stress Follows You Into Sleep
Stress is the most common thread in sleep grinding, and it works in a way that is easy to miss. During the day, stress tightens the body. The shoulders rise, the neck stiffens, the jaw clenches, and the breathing becomes shallow. Most people do not notice this until the end of the day, when they realise their jaw aches or their shoulders are sore. At night the body should let all of that go, but a stressed brain does not always switch off. It keeps turning over the day’s worries, it stays alert, and it keeps the muscles on a low level of tension even in sleep. The jaw, which was tight all day, stays tight at night, and the grinding begins.
It is not only big worries that do this. Small, steady pressures add up: a busy week at work, money worries, family tension, exams, a move, a new baby, or a long period of poor sleep. The brain does not rank these neatly. It carries the total load into the night. That is why grinding often starts during a difficult month and fades when life calms down, and why a person can grind heavily for a few weeks and then stop for months. The jaw is acting as a record of the day’s tension, in the same way that a stiff neck or a headache can be.
Emotions other than stress can play a part too. Anger held in during the day, frustration that had no outlet, or anxiety about the next day can all keep the brain alert at night. Some people grind more on Sunday nights, before the working week, or before a big event. Others grind more after a day of arguments or bad news. The link is not always obvious in the morning, because the grinding happened hours after the stressful event, while the person was asleep. Keeping a simple note, of stressful days and bad mornings, often shows the pattern more clearly than memory alone.
What Happens Inside the Mouth at Night
Inside the mouth, a night of grinding is a night of hard, repeated contact between teeth that were designed to meet only briefly. Normal chewing brings the teeth together for a fraction of a second, with food in between to cushion them. Grinding brings them together directly, with no food, and slides them sideways under force. Over time that wears the biting surfaces flat. The sharp edges of the teeth become smooth, the teeth can look shorter, and the enamel, the hard outer layer, can thin. That is why dentists often spot grinding before the patient knows about it: the wear pattern is clear, and it does not match normal chewing.
The gums and the roots of the teeth can feel the force too. Teeth may become sensitive to cold water, or tender when biting into hard food, because the enamel has thinned and the layer underneath is more exposed. Fillings can crack or come loose. In some people the teeth can loosen slightly, though that is less common. The jaw joint can also be affected, because the muscles that grind are the same muscles that move the joint, and hours of hard work can leave the joint sore, stiff, or clicking in the morning. A person who grinds may wake with a jaw that clicks when they open their mouth, and that click is a sign the joint has been loaded all night.
The tongue and cheeks can show signs as well. Some people bite the inside of the cheek, or the edge of the tongue, during the night, and wake with a sore spot. Others wake with a dry mouth, because they have been breathing through the mouth while clenching, or because the grinding has kept the mouth slightly open. None of these signs proves grinding on its own, but together, worn teeth, morning jaw pain, sensitive teeth and a sore cheek, they paint a clear picture, and a dentist can read that picture quickly.
Morning Signs That Point to Night Grinding
The morning is where most people meet their grinding, because the night itself is hidden from them. The most common morning sign is a dull ache in the jaw, in the cheeks, or in front of the ears, that is strongest on waking and eases over the first hour or two. The chewing muscles have been working all night, and they feel like any muscle after hard work: tired, tight, and sore to touch. Opening the mouth wide may feel stiff at first, and the first few bites of breakfast may feel uncomfortable. By mid-morning the ache often fades, which is why many people forget about it until the next morning, when it returns.
Headaches are the second common sign. A grinding headache usually sits at the temples, or behind the eyes, or as a band around the head, and it is strongest in the morning. It comes from the chewing muscles, which run up the side of the head to the temple, and which have been tight all night. It is different from a headache caused by poor sleep alone, because it fades as the jaw relaxes, and it often comes with jaw tenderness. Some people also wake with neck pain or shoulder stiffness, because the jaw muscles work with the neck muscles, and tension in one spreads to the other.
The teeth themselves give morning clues. Teeth may feel tender, as if they have been pressed hard, or they may feel slightly loose for a short time after waking. Cold water may sting more in the morning than later in the day. A partner may report the sound, which is often the clearest clue of all: a grinding or scraping noise in the night, sometimes loud enough to wake the other person, sometimes quiet enough that only a light sleeper hears it. If a partner has mentioned the sound more than once, it is worth taking seriously, even if the mornings feel fine. The teeth are being worn whether the mornings hurt or not.
Why Some Nights Are Worse Than Others
Grinding is rarely the same every night. Some nights are quiet, some are loud, and the difference usually lies in the day before and the evening before bed. A day of high stress, a late night, too little sleep the night before, or a long day of clenching during the day all make the next night worse. The brain carries the tension forward, the sleep is lighter and more broken, and the jaw gets more chances to grind. A calm day, a regular bedtime, and a relaxed evening usually make for a quieter night.
Alcohol and caffeine can make grinding worse, and this surprises people because alcohol is often thought to help sleep. Alcohol may make a person fall asleep faster, but it breaks up the sleep later in the night, with more small wake-ups and lighter sleep, and those wake-ups are the moments when grinding happens. A drink in the evening can therefore lead to a worse morning, even if the person slept quickly. Caffeine late in the day has a similar effect in the opposite way: it keeps the brain alert, makes sleep lighter, and keeps the muscles more active. Smoking is also linked to heavier grinding, though the reasons are less clear, and it is one more reason that a person who grinds and smokes may find the problem improves if they stop.
Illness, a blocked nose, or snoring can make grinding worse too. When breathing is harder at night, the brain wakes slightly more often to keep the airway open, and each of those small wake-ups can trigger the jaw. A cold, an allergy, or sleeping on the back with the mouth open can all add to this. Children who grind often do so during a cold or after a change in sleep, and the grinding fades when the illness passes. For adults the pattern is similar: a bad week of sleep, for whatever reason, often means a bad week of grinding, and the two improve together when sleep steadies.
Children, Adults and Grinding
Grinding is common in children, and it is often a different story from grinding in adults. Many children grind at night, especially between the ages of three and ten, when the teeth are changing and the jaw is growing. The grinding often comes and goes, and in many children it fades on its own as they grow older and the adult teeth settle. Parents hear it and worry, which is natural, but a child who grinds, sleeps well, eats normally, and has no pain is usually not in danger. The dentist will watch the teeth at check-ups, and will say if the wear is more than expected. If a child wakes with jaw pain, or the teeth are wearing quickly, or the grinding is very loud every night, that is worth mentioning at a dental visit.
In adults, grinding is more often tied to stress, sleep problems, and daytime clenching. It can start at any age, though it often starts in the twenties or thirties, when work and life pressures are high. Some adults have ground since childhood and have simply carried the habit forward. Others start after a stressful event, a change in work, or a period of poor sleep. Adult grinding is more likely to damage teeth over time, because the teeth are permanent, the force is stronger, and the habit can go on for years without being noticed. That is why a dentist’s check matters: the wear accumulates slowly, and early notice can save teeth.
Older people can grind too, though the pattern may change. Some find the grinding eases as they retire and life calms down. Others find it continues, especially if sleep becomes lighter with age. Missing teeth, dentures, or a changed bite can also affect grinding, because the jaw may work harder to find a comfortable position. In every age group, the same rule holds: grinding is a habit the brain makes, not a fault in the person, and it is worth understanding rather than blaming yourself for it.
Daily Habits That Shape the Night
The night begins in the day. A jaw that is relaxed during the day is more likely to be relaxed at night, and a jaw that is clenched all day is more likely to grind at night. The simplest daytime habit is to keep the teeth slightly apart when not eating, with the lips closed and the tongue resting lightly on the roof of the mouth. Many people hold their teeth together while working, driving, or concentrating, without noticing. Learning to check the jaw a few times a day, and to let it drop when it is tight, reduces the total load on the muscles, and that lower load carries into the night.
The evening matters too. A calm hour before bed, without screens, without work, and without heavy news, helps the brain settle. A regular bedtime, a dark and cool bedroom, and a steady wake time help sleep stay smooth, with fewer broken moments when grinding can start. A warm bath, a short walk, or a few minutes of quiet can help the muscles relax. Heavy meals late at night, caffeine after the afternoon, and alcohol in the evening all make sleep more broken, and broken sleep is where grinding lives. None of this is a cure on its own, and none of it will stop grinding in one night, but together these habits change the conditions that allow grinding to happen.
A dentist can help in ways that daily habits cannot. A mouth guard, worn at night, does not stop the brain from sending the signal to grind, but it protects the teeth from the force, by putting a soft layer between them, and it can reduce the load on the jaw. It is fitted to the person’s teeth, and it needs to be checked and replaced as the teeth change. A dentist can also check whether the bite is uneven, whether a filling is too high, or whether the teeth are wearing in a way that needs attention. This article is general information only, not personal advice, and a person with worn teeth, morning pain, or a partner who hears grinding every night should have a dental check, rather than trying to manage it alone.
It is also worth knowing that grinding does not always need a single cause to be found. A person can have a stressful job, a light sleep pattern, a coffee habit, and a tendency to clench during the day, and each of these adds a little to the total. Removing one of them may not stop the grinding, because the others are still there, and that can feel discouraging. The better way to think about it is as a total load: every small change that lowers the load helps a little, and the changes add up over weeks. A calmer evening, less caffeine, a regular bedtime, a relaxed jaw during the day, and a mouth guard to protect the teeth are not five separate cures. They are five small reductions in the same load, and together they can turn a loud, painful night into a quieter one. That is also why a person should not judge the result after one night. The brain and the muscles need time to learn a new pattern, and the teeth need time to stop being loaded. A month of steadier habits is a fairer test than a single good or bad night.
My Take:
If you ask me what I think about grinding teeth in sleep, my first thought is that it is a problem people discover backwards. They do not feel it happening. They feel it the next morning, in a sore jaw and a dull headache, or they hear about it from someone else, or a dentist points at worn teeth and asks a question they cannot answer. That backwards discovery makes it easy to feel helpless, as if your own body is doing something to you in the dark that you cannot control. I understand that feeling, and I think it is the wrong place to start. Grinding is not a mystery force, and it is not a punishment. It is the jaw muscles responding to the state the brain is in at night, and the state the brain is in at night is shaped by the day before it. Once you see it that way, the problem stops being invisible, and you can start to change the things that feed it, even though you cannot control the night directly.
I think stress is the part of this story that matters most, and also the part that people most often underestimate. A person can say they are not stressed, while their shoulders are up around their ears, their jaw is clenched, and they have been holding their breath while working. Stress does not always feel like panic. Often it feels like being busy, or being tired, or having too much to do and too little time. The body keeps the score even when the mind has stopped noticing. During the day the jaw tightens a little, the neck tightens a little, and by bedtime the muscles are already tired and tight. Then the brain, which has not had a chance to settle, carries that tension into sleep, and the grinding begins. I do not think the answer is to tell a stressed person to relax, because that advice is useless without a method. The method is smaller and more practical: a calmer hour before bed, no work in the last hour, a regular bedtime, and a few moments in the day when you notice the jaw and let it drop. Those are not grand changes. They are the kind of changes a tired person can actually do.
I also think we should be honest about what grinding does to the teeth, because that is the part that lasts. A sore jaw in the morning fades by midday, and a headache fades too, but worn enamel does not grow back. Teeth that have been ground flat stay flat. Fillings that have cracked need replacing. That slow, quiet damage is the real reason grinding deserves attention, even on mornings when the pain is mild. It is not a reason to panic, and it is not a reason to feel guilty, but it is a reason to have the teeth checked. A dentist can see the wear in a minute, can tell whether it is getting worse, and can fit a guard that protects the teeth while the habits are changing. I would rather a person spend money on a guard early than spend far more on repairing teeth years later. The teeth are the one part of this story that cannot heal itself, and that fact should shape how seriously we take the problem.
There is another point I want to make, and it is about the difference between stopping the grinding and protecting the teeth. These are two different jobs, and people often confuse them. A mouth guard does not stop the brain from grinding. It protects the teeth from the grinding. That is still a valuable job, and it is worth doing, but it is not a cure, and a person who wears a guard and still grinds is not failing. The grinding itself is changed by sleep, by stress, by the evening, and by the daytime habits of the jaw, and those changes are slow. I think it is important to say this plainly, because a person who expects a guard to stop the grinding will be disappointed, and disappointment can turn into giving up. The guard is a shield. The habits are the treatment. Both are needed, and neither is enough on its own.
I also have a view on alcohol and caffeine, because they are the two habits people defend most, and the two that most often make grinding worse. A drink in the evening feels like it helps sleep, because it makes a person drowsy, but the sleep that follows is broken, with more small wake-ups, and those wake-ups are the moments when the jaw starts grinding. A person can fall asleep quickly and still wake with a sore jaw, and the drink is the reason. Caffeine late in the day does the same thing from the other side: it keeps the brain alert, makes the sleep lighter, and keeps the muscles active. I am not saying a person must give up coffee or never drink again. I am saying that if the mornings are sore, the evening drink and the late coffee are worth testing. Try a month without them, or with less of them, and see whether the mornings change. That is a fair test, and it costs nothing.
I think children deserve a separate word here, because parents worry about grinding in a way that adults do not worry about themselves. A parent hears the sound from the next room, imagines the teeth being ruined, and lies awake worrying. My view is calmer than that fear. Many children grind, and in many of them it fades as they grow, as the teeth change and the jaw settles. A child who grinds, sleeps well, eats normally, and has no pain is usually not in danger, and the dentist will watch the teeth at each visit. The time to act is when the wear is fast, or the child wakes in pain, or the grinding is loud every single night. Then a dental visit is the right step, not a home remedy, and not worry in silence. Children do not need to be told off for grinding, because they are asleep and they cannot control it. They need the same thing adults need: a calm evening, a regular bedtime, and a dentist who is watching.
If a friend asked me what to do about grinding in sleep, I would keep the advice short and in order. First, find out how bad it is: ask the partner whether they hear it, ask the dentist whether the teeth are wearing, and keep a simple note for a few weeks of bad mornings, stressful days, late nights, and drinks or late coffee. Second, protect the teeth: get a dental check, and if the dentist suggests a guard, use it, because enamel does not grow back. Third, change the day and the evening: keep the teeth apart when not eating, let the jaw drop when it is tight, keep a regular bedtime, keep the last hour before bed calm, and cut back on late caffeine and evening alcohol for a month to see what changes. Fourth, be patient, because the brain learns slowly, and a month of steadier habits is a fairer test than one good night. I would not tell that friend to buy a gadget that promises to stop grinding, or to follow a complicated plan, or to feel ashamed of something they do in their sleep. Grinding is a habit the brain makes under pressure, and habits change when the pressure changes, not when the person is blamed.
One last thought, and it is about patience, because grinding is a slow problem and it needs a slow answer. A person who has ground for years will not stop in a week, even if they do everything right. The muscles have learned to tighten, the brain has learned to trigger the jaw in light sleep, and both need time to learn a new pattern. The signs of progress are small: a morning with less jaw ache, a week when the partner hears nothing, a dental visit where the wear has not increased. Those are the signs that matter, and they come slowly. I think the best way to judge is over a month or two, not over a night. If the mornings are easier, if the teeth are protected, and if the sleep is steadier, then the work is paying off, even if the grinding has not vanished completely. The goal is not a perfect night. The goal is a jaw that rests, teeth that last, and mornings that do not start with pain, and that is a goal worth working toward a little at a time.
I also think it helps to be honest about what a dentist can and cannot do, because people sometimes expect a single visit to fix a habit that took years to form. A dentist can measure the wear, can tell you whether it is getting worse, can fit a guard that protects the teeth, and can check whether a high filling or an uneven bite is adding to the load. What a dentist cannot do is reach into your sleep and switch the grinding off. That part belongs to sleep and to stress, and it changes slowly, through the habits of the day and the evening. I say this not to lower expectations, but to set them right. If you go to the dentist expecting a cure and you leave with a guard, you may feel the visit failed. If you go expecting protection for your teeth and a clear picture of the wear, the visit has done its job, and the rest of the work is yours, a little at a time, night after night. That is a fairer way to judge it, and it keeps a person from chasing one quick fix after another.
There is one more thing I want to say, and it is about the partner who hears the grinding. The sound can keep a partner awake, night after night, and that tiredness can turn into frustration, and the frustration can turn into arguments about something neither person can control. I think it helps to name that plainly. The person grinding is not doing it on purpose, and the partner is not being unreasonable for being kept awake. The answer is not blame, and it is not sleeping in separate rooms as a first step, though some couples do that for a while and it is a fair choice. The answer is to treat the grinding as a shared problem: a dental check, a guard, steadier sleep, and a calmer evening help both people, because a quieter night is a better night for the partner too. When both people see it that way, the grinding stops being a source of tension between them, and becomes something they are working on together, which is a far better place to be.
And finally, I want to say something about the mornings themselves, because they are the part of this problem that a person actually lives with. A morning that starts with a sore jaw and a headache sets the tone for the whole day. You eat breakfast carefully, you speak less, you feel tired before the day has begun, and you carry that into work. Over weeks, that slow start adds up, and a person can feel as if they are always a little behind. I think that is the real cost of grinding, more than the sound, and more than the wear. It steals the freshness of the morning. The way to win it back is not dramatic. It is the steady work described above: a relaxed jaw in the day, a calm evening, a regular bedtime, protected teeth, and time. If the mornings get easier, even a little, that is progress worth noticing, and it is the progress that matters most, because a better morning makes a better day, and better days, added together, are what a good life is made of.
I also want to be clear about one last thing, and that is the difference between a bad night and a bad pattern. Everyone has a bad night now and then: a late evening, a worrying day, a cold, a change of bed, and the next morning the jaw aches. That single night is not a diagnosis, and it is not a reason to change everything at once. A pattern is different. A pattern is a sore jaw most mornings, a partner who hears the sound most nights, teeth that are wearing a little more at every dental visit, and a habit that follows stress the way a shadow follows a person. A single bad night needs rest. A pattern needs a plan, and the plan is the one described above: protect the teeth, steady the sleep, calm the evening, relax the jaw in the day, and give it time. Knowing which one you have, a night or a pattern, saves a person from worrying over nothing, and saves a person with a real pattern from waiting too long. If you are not sure which one it is, a dental check and a few weeks of simple notes will tell you, and that is a small effort for a clear answer.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does “Why Do We Grind Our Teeth in Sleep” really mean?
It means asking why the jaw clenches or slides the teeth against each other during sleep, when the person is not aware of it. In most cases the brain sends signals to the strong chewing muscles during light sleep or during the shifts between sleep stages, often when the day’s stress has left the muscles tight. The teeth meet with no food between them and slide under force, which is what makes the grinding sound and wears the teeth.
Why do so many people search for “Why Do We Grind Our Teeth in Sleep”?
People search for it because they wake with a sore jaw or a headache, or because a partner has told them about the sound, or because a dentist has noticed worn teeth. The grinding happens in sleep, so the person has no memory of it and wants to know what causes it, whether it is harmful, and whether anything can be done about it.
How long does the feeling behind “Why Do We Grind Our Teeth in Sleep” usually last?
A morning jaw ache from grinding usually eases over the first hour or two after waking, as the muscles relax. A headache from grinding often fades by mid-morning. The grinding habit itself can last for weeks, months or years, coming and going with stress and sleep quality. The wear on the teeth lasts, because enamel does not grow back, which is why protecting the teeth matters even when the mornings feel fine.
What makes “Why Do We Grind Our Teeth in Sleep” feel stronger on some days?
Stressful days, short or broken sleep, late nights, daytime clenching, caffeine late in the day, alcohol in the evening, illness, a blocked nose, and snoring can all make grinding worse on a given night. The same person can have a quiet night after a calm day and a loud night after a hard day, because the brain carries the day’s tension and the sleep is more broken.
Can daily habits change anything about “Why Do We Grind Our Teeth in Sleep”?
Yes, daily habits can change how often and how hard the jaw grinds. Keeping the teeth slightly apart when not eating, letting the jaw drop when it feels tight, keeping a regular bedtime, keeping the last hour before bed calm, and cutting back on late caffeine and evening alcohol can all make sleep steadier and the jaw more relaxed. A dentist-fitted mouth guard protects the teeth while the habits change, though it does not stop the brain from sending the signal.
When should I pay closer attention to “Why Do We Grind Our Teeth in Sleep”?
Pay closer attention if the teeth are wearing flat, becoming sensitive or tender, if fillings crack, if the jaw aches every morning, if the jaw clicks or locks, if a partner hears grinding most nights, or if a child grinds loudly every night with pain. A dental check is the right step, and a simple note of stressful days and bad mornings helps the dentist see the pattern. This is general information only, not personal advice.